Happiness Quotes

When one door of happiness closes, another opens, but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened for us.


Happiness does not consist in pastimes and amusements but in virtuous activities. Aristotle
Happiness resides not in possessions and not in gold; the feeling of happiness dwells in the soul.

Happiness is not achieved by the conscious pursuit of happiness; it is generally the by-product of other activities.

The chances are that you have already come to believe that happiness is unattainable. But men have attained it. And they have attained it by realizing that happiness does not spring from the procuring of physical or mental pleasure, but from the development of reason and the adjustment of conduct to principles. from How to Live on 24 Hours a Day,
by Arnold Bennett

Fortify yourself with contentment, for this is an impregnable fortress.

Happiness depends more on the inward disposition of mind than on outward circumstances.


There is only one way to happiness, and that is to cease worrying things which are beyond the power of our will.


I have learned to seek my happiness by limiting my
desires, rather than attempting to satisfy them.

You're happiest while you're making the greatest contribution.Robert F.

When you believe

Many nights we've prayed
With no proof anyone could hear
In our hearts a hopeful song
We barely understood
Now we are not afraid
Although we know there's much to fear
We were moving mountains
Long before we knew we could
Chorus:
There can be miracles
When you believe
Though hope is frail
It's hard to kill
Who knows what miracles
You can achieve
When you believe
Somehow you will, (Now you will (3rd Chorus through))
You will when you believe
In this time of fear
When prayer so often proves in vain
Hope seemed like the summer birds
Too swiftly flown away
Yet now I'm standing here
My heart's so full, I can't explain
Seeking faith and speaking words
I never thought I'd say
Chorus
So in times when all your hope is gone
And you go through life afraid
In your heart there lies a hopeful song
That is there to guide the way
And all the hurt and all the pain
You soon will learn was not in vain
For all your prayers, they will be heard
They'll come to pass through faith
Chorus

Isteri Cantik Jelita, Suami Tak Hensem

" SEWAKTU dalam penerbangan pulang ke Kuala Lumpur bulan lalu, saya berbual dengan penumpang di sebelah yang memperkenalkan diri sebagai V. Manis orangnya dengan tahi lalat macam Siti Nurhaliza. Ketawanya nyaring danbertambah nyaring bila berbual tentang suami. V sudah berkahwin dan katanya, " I tak pernah bayangkan akan mengahwini dia."Saya renung wajahnya dengan dahi berkerut. Mengapa?"Dia bukan cita rasa saya. Saya selalu angan-angan mengahwini seorang doktor. Tapi dia.. emm... guru. Sudahlah tidak berapa tinggi, tidak berapa kacak dan perut pun tidak berapa ramping.""Tapi sudah tiga tahun kahwin, sudah ada anak seorang, saya tahu sampai mati pun saya akan cintai dia seorang saja,"Saya rumuskan begini: tidak berapa tinggi - pendek @ katek, tidak berapakacak ? hodoh @ tidak sedap mata memandang, dan perut tidak berapa ramping? gendut @ buncit. Saya hanya senyum sendiri.
Kata Harvilee Hendrix penulisbuku "Getting the love you want" cinta romantis menyuburkan fantasi juga kejahilan dan ia tidak sesuai untuk tempoh jangka masa panjang.Jadi, jika anda sedang mencari-cari pasangan, jangan terlalu banyak bermimpi. Sila lupakan gabungan lima kriteria utama ini dan berpijaklah dibumi nyata.
1. Lelaki kacak dengan badan atlit - jika anda tertarik pada lelaki keranakecantikan fizikalnya, oh.. Anda harus meminta dia berusaha kerasmengekalkannya hingga hujung usia. Paling penting, lelaki yang menghabiskanmasa di gym dan mengambil makanan tambahan untuk kecantikan tubuh tentusaja tidak akan memaafkan anda, jika anda terlebih berat (terutama selepasbersalin) atau baju terlebih saiz.
2. Lelaki macho dengan gaya unggul - terpesona kerana kekemasan danketrampilannya? Baca ini, "saya tahu dia seorang peguam dan menghabiskanbanyak masa untuk kelihatan mempersona dan berwibawa tapi adilkah jika diamelepaskan peluang bercuti sekeluarga untuk membeli suit baru sedangkansemuanya sama saja pada saya, hitam dan putih! Maaf ya, nampaknya koleksidalam almari lebih penting dari anda.
3. Kerjaya prestij ? kerja hebat dengan gaji mantap. Emm... tentu sajakerjaya akan didahulukan daripada anda. Apa yang akan terjadi, dari urusanbil air api, susu anak, yuran sekolah anak hinggalah hutang kereta, andayang akan selesaikan, jadilah anda superwomen! Lelaki yang mampu fokuskepada kerja tapi dalam masa yang sama tidak mengabaikan anda walaupun diatidak berbadan atlit, tidak bergaya adalah lebih berbaloi.
4. Kereta mewah menjalar ? pasti punggung terasa mengembang duduk disebelah jejaka kacak dengan kereta mewah hingga rambut pun kusut masaimeredah angin. Lelaki selalu menjadikan kereta isteri nombor satu terutamajika dia memandu kereta dengan dua tempat duduk adalah lelaki yang selalumengaitkan kereta dengan kelelakian. Mampukah nanti dia menukar kereta duatempat duduk atau kereta yang sudah diubahsuai ribuan ringgit menjadikereta keluarga dan membawa anak-anak yang tentu saja akan mengotor danmenghenyak-henyak kerusi empuk?
5. Datang dari keluarga sempurna ? lelaki yang sempurna mesti datang darikeluarga sempurna. Maksudnya, dia dan semua adik beradiknya graduanuniversiti. Masing-masing berjawatan hebat, dari kalangan datuk-datin, tansri- puan sri, mesra dan sejahtera sepanjang masa. Walau siapa pun kita,sesekali berkocak juga hubungan keluarga. Abang Ngah mungkin tidak mesradengan abang Chik. Dia pula anak kesayangan yang dicemburui. Itu bukan luarbiasa dan itu bukan tanda dia tidak mampu jadi suami yang baik.Perkahwinan bukan untuk sehari tapi hingga jasad tertanam. Carilah yangsesuai di hati, jangan hipokrasi... paling utama cerminlah diri sendiri.
Bak lirik lagu popular, jangan kau harap jangan kau mimpi..."

Men Are Hard To Pleased

The problems with GUYS:
If u TREAT him nicely, he says u are IN LOVE with him; If u Don't, he says u are PROUD.
If u DRESS Nicely, he says u are trying to LURE him; If u Don't, he says u are from KAMPUNG.
If u ARGUE with him, he says u are STUBBORN;
If u keep QUIET, he says u have no BRAINS.
If u are SMARTER than him, he'll lose FACE; If he's Smarter than u, he is GREAT.
If u don't Love him, he tries to POSSESS u; If u Love him, he will try to LEAVE u.
If u don't make love with him., he says u don't Love him; If u do he says u are CHEAP.
If u tell him your PROBLEM, he says u are TROBLESOME; If u don't, he says that u don't TRUST him.
If u SCOLD him, u are like a NANNY to him; If he SCOLDS u, it is because he CARES for u.
If u BREAK your PROMISE, u Cannot be TRUSTED; If he BREAKS his, he is FORCED to do so.
If u SMOKE, u are BAD girl; If he SMOKES , he is GENTLEMENT.
If u do WELL in your exams, he says it's LUCK; If he does WELL, it's BRAINS.
If u HURT him, u are CRUEL; If he HURTS u, u ar e too ! SENSITIVE!! & sooo hard to please!!!!!

6 week, 6 month and 6 year

Dating process: 6 weeks : I love U, I love U, I love U. 6 months : Of course I love U. 6 years : GOD, if I didn't love U, then why the hell did I propose? Married: 6 weeks : Honey, I'm home. 6 months : BACK!! 6 years : What did your mom cook for us today?? Gifts: 6 weeks : Honey, I really hope you liked the ring. 6 months : I bought you a painting; it would fit the motif in the living room. 6 years : Here's the money. Buy yourself something. Phone Ringing: 6 weeks : Baby, somebody wants you on the phone. 6 months : Here, for you. 6 years : PHONE RINGING. Cooking: 6 weeks : I never knew food could taste so good! 6 months : What are we having for dinner tonight? 6 years : AGAIN!!!! Apology: 6 weeks: Honey muffin, don't you worry, Ill never hold this against you. 6 months: Watch out! Don't do it again. 6 years : What's not to understand about what I just said?? New Dress: 6 weeks : Oh my God, you look like an angel in that dress. 6 months : You bought a new dress again??? 6 years : How much did THAT cost me? Planning for Vacations: 6 weeks : How do 2 weeks in Viennaor anywhere you please sound?? 6 months : What's so bad about going to Istanbul on a charter plane? 6 years : Travel? What's so bad about staying home??? TV: 6 weeks : Baby, what would you like us to watch tonight? 6 months : I like this movie. 6 years : I'm going to watch ESPN, if you're not in the mood, go to bed, I can stay up by myself.

80s babies....

untuk bacaan pada masa lapang...
enjoy...sure korang teringat balik zaman2 skolah dulu...

tanda-tanda anda bayi tahun 80-an:

kita membesar dgn menonton G-Force, He-man, Transformers, Thundercats,
Silver Hawk, Woody Woodpecker, Chipmunks and Mickey Mouse. Not to
forget
Ninja Turtles, Mask, Smurfs dan Voltron.

berus gigi time waktu rehat kat skolah rendah?...hmm, mesti pegang
cawan
warna-warni kan. mencangkung kat tepi parit dgn classmates semua kat
seblah...

ingat tak, misi kat skolah masuk kelas dgn list dentist appointment.
pastu
bunyi gigi member kite kene gerudi kat bilik sebelah. ada gigi yang
berlubang, kene laa tampal.

ni sure korang igt...program minum susu di skolah. nak galakkan budak2
time
tuh minum susu. sekotak 30 sen jek beb...

cikgu2 kalau nak denda, mesti guna pembaris panjang warna kuning tu.
pukul
tapak tangan...kan?

semangkuk mi sup ke, mihun sup ke, 30 sen jek kat kantin.

Hankyu Jaya, Yaohan - shopping complex yang popular utk meluangkan masa
dgn
family. ni for those yg dok KL laa

time skolah menengah, korang sure beli kasut skolah Bata BM Turbo atau
Pallas Jazz.
ada yang suka kasut high-cut yang buatan china tu...ada yang suka
stoking
tebal laaa...

internet? email? mendalah ape tu?

CD? ape tu? kaset tape penah laa dgr. tiket wayang pun 5 inggit je.

kite pegi kedai runcit, beli Chickerdis, Mamee , Kum Kum, UFO, O-Ya,
Ding
Dang chocolate balls yang ada mainan kat dlm die, 'telur' keras warna
warni, 'rokok' chewing gum, KIKI Bubble Gum.

tak dilupakan, 'Ti Kam'.
bile dah abih exam, main Monopoly la, Donkey la, Happy Family laa dlm
class.

tapi bunyi loceng laa yang paling best skali. boleh beli aiskrim ngan
apek
kat luar skola tuh...

lagi satu loceng masa nak pegi rehat. tinggal kan keje skolah, jom kita
pegi makan. budak2 yg dpt Rancangan Makanan Tambahan (RMT) mesti kluar
awal.

lagi satu yang seronok mase time Pendidikan Jasmani, PJ. main bola laa,
rounders laa...

permainan kegemaran, main guli, batu seremban, penutup botol, batang
aiskrim, 'Pepsi Cola one-two-three', 'Police & Sentry', kejar2 duduk...

kita hilangkan dahaga dgn aiskrim 10 sen. yang tube aiskrim, ada byk2
color
tu. kalau nak makan, kene patahkan kat tengah2 die!

lipat kertas kecik2, pastuh buat lastik. hmmm..ni pun kita main dulu
ni.
baling2 kapur laa.

hmm...budak2 kat university skarang, kebanyakan nye lahir thn 1987/88.
skarang digelar 'remaja'.

bagi diorg, diorg mane penah dgr lagu 'We Are the World, We Are the
Children...' dan lagu 'Uptown Girl' yang diorg tau, yg Westlife
nyanyi....bkn Billy Joel nyanyi...

bagi diorg, ada satu je Jerman kat dunia ni, dan ade satu je
Vietnam.

AIDS wujud sejak diorg lahir.

CD pun wujud time diorg lahir.

Michael Jackson dah putih dah time tu.

Diorg percaya Spiderman dgn Incredible Hulk tu filem2 baru.

Diorg tak bley bayangkan skrin hitam putih utk sebuah komputer.

Diorg tak penah tau pun 'Atari' dgn 'Game & Watch'.

Diorg tak percaya penah ada TV hitam putih...dan diorg skarang tak reti
nak
switch on TV kalau xde remote control.

dan diorg tak paham macam mane kite boleh survive dkt universiti tanpa
handphone...

hmm...jom kite check, kite ni dah tua ke:

1. korg paham ape yang korang baca kat atas ni, dan korg sure tersenyum

2. kebanyakan member2 skolah menengah kite dah kawin

3. korg sure pelik bile nengok bdak2 kecik main komputer, selamba je

4. kita geleng kepala bile nengok bdak2 skolah menengah guna handphone

5. kita dah tak byk sembang2 dgn member melalui telefon lagi setiap
hari

6. bile jumpe member lame dari semasa ke semasa, seronok bile
bersembang
pasal cerite2 lame, cerite2 kelakar yang kite alami mase dulu time
kecik2,
nakal2 dulu...

7. last skali, bile dah bace email ni, korang akan terpikir utk
forwardkan
dkt member2 lame korg. Sure diorg suke punye laa...hehehe

Yaa, kite pun dah semakin tua!!

Teringat zaman2 dulu kan?

Cheers to the 80s babies!!!

GUess Who?? 

DreaM & ReaLity

hmmm... today just open a new blog... with a new life... why i name this blog dream & Reality... seharusnya ada dalam kehidupan harian.. what a dream... what's reality... it's attached with each other....
ntah nape sejak akhir2 ni banyak sangat perkara yg berlaku...
oh ya.. next month is my final exam... hmm dah nak habis study rupanya... bestnyer... my frenz ajak me continue master.. usm course again... hmmm... sure pening... alangkan degree dah tunggang tebalik... but i try my best to achieve my ambition.. wish me luck... i really need it... hopefully will success... k... tat's it... per pun after exam nak gi enjoy kat redang or genting!!!! Sesiapa yang masuk to my page... Welcome... i hope you will click the banner kat atas tu yer... sumbangan to me.... k... enjoy it...

20 Secrets to Happiness

Return everything you borrow.
Stop blaming other people.
Live within your means and within your seams.
Be humble.
Listen more; talk less.
Every day, do something nice and try not to get caught.
Strive for excellence, not perfection.
Be on time.
Don't criticize anyone for 24 hours.
Be kind to other people.
Be even kinder to unkind people.
Take time to be alone.
Admit it when you make a mistake.
Understand and accept that life isn't always fair.
Let someone cut ahead of you in line.
Don't argue.
Know when to say something.
Know when to keep your mouth shut.
Don't make excuses.
Don't sweat the small stuff.

Recipe For Happiness

2 Heaping cups of patience
1 Heart full of love
2 Hands full of generosity
Dash of laughter
1 Head full of understanding
Sprinkle generously with kindness
Add plenty of faith and mix well.S
pread over a period of a lifetime
And serve everyone you meet.

Hmmm.. me n frenz.. 

Me N My best Frenz... Luv this pic so much.. 

Me and my classmate.. All da handsome guys... 

It's me 

No More Fight No More

I can't sleep,
everything i ever knew,
It's a lie, without you,

I can't breathe,
when my heart is broke in two,
There's no beat,without you,

You're not gone,but you're not here,
It's that's the way it seems tonight,I
f we could try to end these wars,

I know that we can make it right,cause baby,

I don't wanna fight no more,I

forgot what we were fighting for,

and this lonelyness that's in my heart,

won't let me be apart from you,

I don't wanna have to try,

Girl, to live without you in my life,So,

i'm hoping we can start tonight,

cause i don't wanna fight,no more,

How can I leave,

when everything that I adore,

and everything I'm living for,Girl,

it's in you,

I can't dream,

sleepless nights have got me bad,

The only dream i ever had,

is being with you,

I know that we can make it right,

It's gonna take a little time,

Lets not leave ourselves with no way out,

lets not cross that line,(that line)

I don't wanna fight no more,

I forgot what we were fighting for,

and this lonelyness that's in my heart,

won't let me be apart from you,

It's all a lie,

Without you,

without you......